Phase 1: Valentines Day Before you Had Children-
You plan the entire night in d.e.t.a.i.l. and nothing will deter you. Your favorite restaurant doesn’t take reservations on Valentines Day, eh what’s a two-hour wait when you have nothing better to do. You go to your favorite italian restaurant, wearing a new outfit after having spent an afternoon admiring the flowers you received. You order whatever you like and stuff yourself silly while drinking copious amounts of wine and
watching gossiping about all the other people around you and what they’re doing. Then you head home to do unspeakable things that will launch you into the next phase of Valentines Day.
Phase 2: Valentines Day with a New Baby-
It’s okay, a new baby doesn’t have to change things. Maybe you don’t want to pay a babysitter while you sweat out the 2 hour wait at the bar for your favorite restaurant. Pshhh no biggy you can go to a restaurant that you enjoy that’s not your favorite. You make a reservation, hire a babysitter, skip a new outfit for yourself, outfit your new baby in something ridiculous that says something like Mommy’s Little Heart Throb and in a mildly panicky state you hand over your new baby to some teenager while you go out to enjoy an adult evening without the youngster. You spend the entire evening talking about your baby, rationalizing that it’s totally normal as is your irrational fright that the babysitter has somehow put him in the clothes washer and turned it on, how misguided were you trusting today’s youth, and eats a little faster. Then you go home, find relief that the not so misguided youth has actually kept your baby alive and put him to sleep so you proceed to do unspeakable things that will launch you into the next phase of Valentines Day.
Phase 3: Valentines Day with Multiple Children Under 3-
You’ve now rationalized that your husband’s recent sporting goods purchase is gift enough, chalk up the sweater you bought earlier in the week to your gift and consider major gifts done. You find yourself eating a heart-shaped pizza the day before Valentines Day with the kidlets in tow because you just have too much going on on the real day to get any kind of “special meal” in. You haul the kids to Barnes and Nobles to pick out Valentines Day gifts, where they are enamored with the train table and could care less about the books. You dash into the local candy store for your husbands favorite chocolate covered potato chips, buy your favorite candy as well and call the day done. You prop the candy up with the new pilates mat you bought him, which you would have bought him anyway and are good to go. You can cross Valentines Day off your never ending to do list and go back to getting things ready for a birthday part this weekend and all the other shit you have to do. New outfits for anyone? Hahaha, you just hope you made it through the day matching and with clothes that aren’t covered with stains, snot and food bits. If it’s a good day you’ve remembered the kids should wear red/pink, but really it was whatever you grabbed out of the drawer first that was seasonally appropriate.
Valentines Day Done.
Happy Valentines Day from My Cracked Pot to Yours!
and in case you need a last-minute e-card, here’s a few of my favorites
- The Valentine’s Day Pep-Talk You Probably Need (modestexaggeration.wordpress.com)
- What Not To Say On Valentine’s Day (thebyronicman.com)
- Valentine’s Day (champagnemoods.com)
- Valentine’s Day By the Number’s (spyroslangkos.wordpress.com)
- Valentines Day (rebeccazenker.wordpress.com)
- 11 Perks Of Being Single On Valentine’s Day (thoughtcatalog.com)
- Valentine’s Day Tips (thehonesttoddler.com)
- Things to avoid on Valentine’s Day (outsideperception.wordpress.com)
- 9 Valentine’s Day Activities Worse Than Being Alone (nymag.com)
- 4 Awkward Things No One Told Me About Valentine’s Day (thekimberlydiaries.com)